difficulty dating

I have not yet to navigate the hurdles of the dating world as a gf. Some freak out and think I am a freak... Don't want them anyhow. Others are just turned off... Wouldn't want to be in a relationship with them but some of them represent great fuck buddies. Some are ok with it, while yet others fetishize it. You can see where there are a few hurdles to jump. Right now all I want is play partners so I wonder whenni should bring it up. I do the online thing so I also run across "should I put it in my profile?" this limits my prospect pool, but does a few, albeit usually far better matches. I am currently wincing and taking the hit as I choose not to explain my gender in my profile... Maybe I will do so in conversation... Laterz! Colby